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My Promise

December 20, 2009/8 Comments/in Coaching, Reflection /by Gika Rector

I’m storing some paintings for a friend. One of them just didn’t fit in the closet, so she was going to take it back and find another spot for it. Without looking at it, I said, “Let’s hang it up. I don’t know where I have any spaces, but let’s hang it up.” Turns out that the perfect spot is in my studio. Turns out the painting is called My Promise.

And we were going to put it in a closet—an attic closet! How ironic, and how sadly common, that we take our promises and store them in a closet.

Take your promises out of the closet. Look at them. Promises to keep, yes? And perhaps some to let go. Either way, they don’t belong in the closet.

It could be that some of your promises just don’t work any more. What’s changed, so that the promise is no longer appropriate? Acknowledge it, and do what you need to do to move forward. (Easier said than done, but important nonetheless.)

What are the promises you’ve made? To whom did you make the promises? Look especially closely at your promises to yourself. Bring them out in the open, and smile at them.

Keep your word, and see if that doesn’t improve your life.

My Promise

My Promise, acrylic on canvas
by Vicki Lampros

8 replies
  1. Marilyn
    Marilyn says:
    January 13, 2010 at 11:13 pm

    Inspiring!!! Your blogs are like mini-coaching sessions. I’m sending your web address to a bunch of folks.

  2. Gika
    Gika says:
    January 13, 2010 at 11:30 pm

    Thanks for your feedback, and for sharing!

  3. efg
    efg says:
    January 14, 2010 at 1:06 pm

    Hi Marilyn!

    In case you hadn’t noticed them, I thought I should mention that at the top of each blog post, you’ll find a little group of icons labeled “Share.” Those buttons make it easy to share a post by way of Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, StumbleUpon, Digg, Delicious, Technorati, Google Bookmarks, or e-mail. (Or, of course, you can just paste the URL into an e-mail message.)

    Thanks for helping spread the word!

  4. Jen
    Jen says:
    January 19, 2010 at 2:40 pm

    I was there when the decision was made to install “My Promise” in Gikas’ studio. What a great way to begin the year – I will air out my promises and see where they lead me. Life is too short to be held back by promises we have not kept- especially to ourselves…thanks for the reminder Gika!

  5. kathleen McNamara
    kathleen McNamara says:
    January 19, 2010 at 2:55 pm

    Hi Gika!
    Congrats on your blog set up. I will look forward to keeping up with it. I am just exploring the world of blogs this month. Take care and keep in touch.
    Kathleen

  6. MaryBeth Smith
    MaryBeth Smith says:
    January 19, 2010 at 3:37 pm

    Gika, welcome to the blogosphere.
    Gorgeous, Ed! Take that any way you want! ;-)

  7. efg
    efg says:
    January 19, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    @MaryBeth:

    Every way I can think of to take it, it makes me happy! Woohoo!

  8. Gika
    Gika says:
    January 19, 2010 at 8:36 pm

    Thank you all for your very kind words. Gika

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